Assalamualaikum w.b.t.
160314.
It's going to be an English rant
version of an article or an entry to make it less formal.
Warning, I might break any writing
rules (article) if any.
What is an uptight lady? One must not mistaken uptight with a stuck up.
To answer the latter, I would suggest
all of you to watch a movie entitled Easy A, there is a character called
Marianne. That kind of person would explain to you well what a stuck up lady is.
In the viewer point of view, she may
appear stuck up in term of religious act and piety.
An uptight character usually built
over time.
The miracle does not happen in a blink
of eyes because you could confuse about being uptight with a woman's mood
swing. Blame the hormones once a month or just blame the individual to throw
her tantrum as long as she lives.
Uptight people have principles.
Rarely being indecisive and always know what she wants.
Like a chant I used to adore and
always a dear to heart is,
"Play hard, work hard."
Those four words could simply said, when
she is in game
"Game is on, baby! Come cry to me after I beat you."
During any serious discussion or
work, she would put her mind and focus on it. This sound too workaholic, but
that is just how she rolls. She would appear unplayful and totally sober to get
her job done. As if she was stranded in a desert, while wandering for a town to
settle then ease her thirst, along the journey she found an oasis but the town
was 100 meters away from the oasis.
What do you think she would do?
Has a quick pit stop to quench the
thirst or walk straight into town?
Well, an uptight lady would have no
halt and keep walking to the town. Her target is the town; quenching thirst is
not the aim, a sub-aim perhaps.
To some people, "What a
ridiculous person she is!" kind of thought might arise right now as you
may think, there is no harm to stop and get some drink.
But, before you decide to
ridicule her decision, she could concentrate better at her objective instead of
led astray (the oasis).
Why an uptight character built over
time?
It is because of the way she was brought up and what kind of environment she has grew out. Is she from a lay-back family, a less strict family or a strict-to-core kind of family? The intermediate is the one, of course.
It is because of the way she was brought up and what kind of environment she has grew out. Is she from a lay-back family, a less strict family or a strict-to-core kind of family? The intermediate is the one, of course.
When you stumble upon an uptight
lady, it does not mean she is always a dead pan serious. No. She has principles
(reminder!), thus she has a stance. A striker maybe and could be your pain the
arse opponent if ever encountered in fight.
Imagine to rule over a tough cookie.
Somehow, a cookie is a cookie with her soft spot and sweetness. Just need right
solution to melt down.
All hail guys, the one that able to
melt this kind of lady instead of feeling intimidated by her personality. For
those who cannot, a pure condolence since being uptight is a persona.
(Sounds
bias here)
Above descriptions are quite heavenly
and here comes the hell side of her.
To be intimidated by others is not a
nice feeling. The other people may perceive her as a no fun human to hang or
work with.
Common argument,
"Why can't you have some fun while doing things?"
"She is so serious; don't crack a joke at a wrong time."
"She is bossy!"
The last comment is hurtful. She
could be a good leader instead of getting insulted by snide bossy remark.
Play hard, work hard honey. Play with
me when there is a game to participate. I would be the most joyful playmate,
err, minus some competitive traits.
A lady she is, sometimes, this kind
of uptight lady decided she would rather be a follower than a leader or a boss.
She is afraid of crossing limit during directing any activity as a head.
Let me ask you again, will not this
kind of talent the lady have would be wasted since she decided to step down and
give ways to other lad to do the leading job?
What kind of leader would you love to
have?
A dilly-dallier or a head in the game one kind of leader would you prefer?
Do not you think her talent is squandered?
Be a wise, please do not feel
intimidated if the wrong doers are you; clash of interests within an
organization.
God, how I wish people could voice out their opinion and able to
make a decision without stirring muddy water.
A confession, the writer is an
uptight person.
Hahha.
Need no penny for this thought.
Cheers!
Cheers!
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