Oh,
Jeez!
If
I know to love in the first place.
I
had this quote, can't remember if I get it from someone,
but
it has been on my facebook for years.
"Love yourself first before you love someone."
Almost
sound promoting let's being a narcist,
with
a condition of having capability to love others.
hahah!
I
misspelled the title at first,
Hot
to Love Like a Brat. Ceh! Sometimes, brats are hot.
That
hotness may be sourced from their cocky confidence.
Since
being confident is sexy, and sexy is quite a deal (ahem!)
Thus,
Hot to Love Like a Brat is possible but ladies and lads,
let
me remind you that you had jumped into a miserable love life.
Flaming
burning love which may burn items to crisp.
Why
did I write this?
It
has come to my amazement that almost every week (if I check this blog's
statistic),
keywords
lead to this blog related to,
"Ayat mengayat perempuan"
"Mengayat makwe""Kekasih lama""Gila bayang"
OMG, please move on.
and
yes, they are all related to how to court girls (maybe ladies).
Poor
lads,
who
did you try to woo so bad till you need lessons to get a significant other?
Well,
we could blame girls/ladies for playing hard to get,
pertaining
with a concept in mind,
"I don't want to appear cheap"
Err,
hello miss! Human do not have a price tag. Unless you were involve in any human
trafficking scheme.
God
Forbid! Nauzubillah.
From
my point of view (successfully maintained being single for almost a quarter of
century),
with
a disclaimer that every woman behaves almost alike but hell they think
differently, bloody fickle and could flip table a second after giving you a
peck on left cheek (hahha!).
My
observation,
we
tend to fall for human's attitude (men in this case), sugary talks work charm
too.
An
exception for a rich man, may attract gold diggers or materialistic if he is
blind to seduction.
I
do not know what rich man would think (for God sake!)
Since
I mentioned women behave accordingly to their taste and what not,
they
fall for good attitude,
or
at first blinded with a good behaviour facade a jackass may play during
courting.
Or
some would say, courting is an act, play decent character just to get laid.
True
to that if you just want a one night stand, people!
And
again, for one to search for a spouse to spend their life, attitude is
important.
Did
stumble upon quite a few men,
complaining
over why that schmucks get (marry) that pretty girl, laid a decent wife
material.
Sure
do, men.
Most
of the couples that I met,
the
one who got a good wife, they are pretty decent too.
Well
behave, less patriarchal (maybe) because the point is; those guys do not act
like a snob to woo females.
Get
my point?
You
want to get married?
Drop
your stupid ego to act like a playboy.
Yes,
confident is sexy to woo like how buzzing bees pit stopping at flowers.
Ayat
mengayat perempuan?
Being
honest?
Like,
admit your flaws if you have. We are all human, if she loves you enough of
course she would accept your everything.
Let
you be her everything.
Stop
the act. Do not act. Fix what attitude one should fix (this goes for men and
women).
Frankly
speaking,
up
to my sleeves, I don’t have any tips on how to mengayat perempuan.
I
do not really like sugary talks or flattery over my physical qualities.
Not
a wheedle I am, definitely not an arse kisser.
But
some women fall for those cheesy lines.
My
advice? Study your love of interest right.
Choose
your card right.
Love
is not a gamble.
Love
is not a game. These are phrases I used to use:
"Have a taste of my game!""Welcome to my league!""Can't take the heat, bug off!"
only
used them when I was mad at men's fickleness. Haha. Mean prick, I know that.
Why
are you single until now?
My
fair share of interests are hard to reach by most people that I know (bore me
or easily predictable)
Need
constant excitement from a brainiac.
But
most of all had a trust issue. HAHAHA.
Laugh
me off. Seriously, women need assurance.
Pen's
down. Ciao.
Moga
dapat mengayat bakal isteri.
p/s:
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